What is Shibari/Kinbaku? Does it hurt?

Kinbaku is the practice of tying a person tightly. When performed by a skilled rigger, it only hurts when they want it to, but pressure and sensation is a natural part of the experience.

To obtain a meditative mindset, we have to put just enough pressure on our body to help us let go, and that balance is what I aim to achieve in rope.

Is Shibari always sexual?

It doesn’t have to be!

Rope play is always a little bit erotic, but the shibari I share with my community is platonic, and light-hearted.

I’m happily married, and I use rope as a tool to enable platonic intimacy and play within my community.

Is Shibari safe?

Rope play carries inherent risks relating to blood flow, nerve damage, and emotional distress, and should never be considered completely safe, no matter who’s tying.

However, a skilled rigger can navigate these hazards to minimize the danger, and keep their partners as safe as possible. I employ a number of safety measures and limitations to ensure that my ties minimize risk of injury, and I I believe my track record reflects the care I put into rope safety.

• A major advantage of working with a professional is minimizing the risk of injury.

Do you need to be flexible or fit to do Shibari?

No, anyone can be tied.

Like any other performance art, fitness and flexibility enables additional shapes and endurance, but a skilled rigger will tie for your body, and not blame you for limitations in their own ability.

What kind of rope do you use?

For kinbaku, I use jute exclusively, but I’m happy to tie and teach the use of other materials.

Do I need to bring my own rope?

For lessons, I generally have enough rope to share, but you’re welcome to bring your own rope!